Gf is blaming me for this mess... what to do?

jane is one unhappy lady. when we are hurt we do some odd things, but, um, what she did is rather bizarre. however, this scandal and amazement will die down. i can understand leila's embarement too. here is the whole world seeing intimate stuff about her bf. don't be defensive about it. be gentle with her, do some nice things and hopefully she will be able to out it behind you!!~!